For When I’m Not Here

A place to leave the words that matter There are times in life when the hardest thing isn’t knowing what you feel.It’s finding the right moment, or the right way, to say it. And there are other times when the problem is simpler and sadder.You can’t speak.You’re not well enough.You’re not emotionally ready.Or you’re simply […]
Why I’m writing my own eulogy notes

My best friend died recently. I was sad to go to her funeral, of course.But I was even sadder when I heard the eulogy. I didn’t recognise the words being used to describe her.They weren’t unkind, but they felt like the sort of compliments you give to someone who did a good job at work, […]
Say Yes

The Yes Philosophy Not perfection, just participation There is a lady I know who has one of the most quietly joyful lives I have ever seen. She is not flashy, not trying to impress anyone, not rushing to fill her days with things to post about online. She simply lives. And when I asked […]
Chasing Dreams can Transform Your Life

Having dreams and plans are one of the most important things in our lives. They give us something to strive for and fill our lives with passion and purpose. Yet, it’s easy to put off working on or trying to achieve our dreams due to work, family, and everyday responsibilities.