Care Home - What would your priorities be?
Often one of the hardest situations people have to face is the fact their parents may need to start looking at different housing arrangements. Whether they are downsizing or are not able to look after themselves, whether due to deteriorating health, simply getting older or finding themselves alone as a partner is no longer here.
Unfortunately there has been bad press for some homes recently from leading to worries about the quality of care, the fear of any mistreatment. Regardless with change you have to look at real possibility of loneliness, and effects of the loss of independence.
There are many things to consider from financial aspects, health, and safety standards, as well as the overall environment and communication within the care home. It's about ensuring our loved ones feel cherished, respected, and supported as they transition into this new chapter of life. So, it's important to approach this journey with care, empathy, and openness, ensuring that every decision reflects the heartfelt desire for their happiness and well-being.
START WITH A CHECK LIST
When looking for a care home or nursing home for a parent in the UK, there are several key factors to consider:
Location: Consider a location that's convenient for you to visit regularly or other siblings or friends etc. What amenities like shops, parks, or public transport are needed.
Facilities and Services: Check what facilities and services the home provides. This includes things like meal options, social activities, medical care, and support with daily tasks.
Staffing: Look into the qualifications and experience of the staff. Ensure they have the necessary training to provide the level of care that will be required.
Quality of Care: Research the home's reputation and any inspection reports available from regulatory bodies like the Care Quality Commission (CQC) in England or equivalent bodies in other parts of the UK. These reports can give you insight into the quality of care provided.
Cost: Understand the fees and what's included in them. Some homes may have additional charges for certain services or activities.
Suitability: Consider whether the home meets specific needs, including any medical conditions or mobility issues that may need to be covered.
Visiting Policy: Enquire about the home's visiting policy to ensure you can spend time as required and stay involved in the care.
Feedback: Talk to current residents and their families if possible to get their perspectives on the home.
Transition Plan: Discuss with the hospital and the home about the transition process to ensure a smooth move
Trust your Instincts: Finally, trust your instincts. Visit the home, ask questions, and observe how staff interact with residents. If something doesn't feel right, consider other options.
It's essential to take your time and thoroughly research your options to find the best fit for your parent's needs and preferences. Additionally, you can seek guidance from social workers, healthcare professionals, or local support groups for advice and recommendations.
CARE HOME V NURSING HOME
For many this is all new ground and the differences between care and nursing homes will usually be dependent on the persons needs.
Care Home:
A care home is like a regular home where people who need some help with daily tasks or activities live. It's a place where older adults or people with disabilities can stay and get support with things like cooking, cleaning, or personal care (like bathing or dressing). In a care home, there are staff members who can provide assistance, but they might not necessarily be trained medical professionals.
Nursing Home:
A nursing home, on the other hand, is similar to a care home but with an added level of medical care. In a nursing home, there are trained nurses and sometimes even doctors who can provide medical assistance and care to residents. This means they can help with more complex medical needs, such as managing medications, providing therapy, or even offering specialized care for conditions like Alzheimer's or dementia.
In essence, the main difference boils down to the level of medical care provided. Care homes offer support with daily living tasks, while nursing homes offer that support plus medical care from trained professionals.
KEEP IT PERSONAL (AND START YOUR OWN NOW)
Ensuring comfort and enjoyment during a person's stay is paramount, especially considering the significant change it can bring. Tailoring the environment to their preferences minimizes disruptions and fosters relaxation and contentment. Its about the person, not a patient.
Understanding personal preferences is key. Here are some aspects to consider:
Clothing: It's important to know their favourite clothing items, whether it's a cozy sweater, specific PJs, or even an electric blanket.
Personal Care Items: Preferred creams, lotions, or grooming products are important for maintaining comfort and familiarity.
Entertainment and Hobbies: Whether it's music, films, books, or crafts, enabling these hobbies can make the stay more enjoyable.
Preferred Bed Linen: Duvet or blankets? Maybe an electric blanket for colder nights? The choice for bedding ensures a restful sleep.
Sentimental Items and Photographs: Familiar surroundings and sentimental items can provide comfort and a sense of home.
Personal Favourites: Whether it's a calming candle scent or a favourite brand of chocolates, having these indulgences on hand can elevate the mood.
Reflecting on our own preferences is also valuable. Ensuring clarity about what brings comfort can be reassuring, especially in unfamiliar environments. So, take a moment to consider preferences, ensuring they're known and honoured wherever one may find themselves.
START YOUR OWN NON NEGOTIABLE LIVING LIST…
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