Why I’m writing my own eulogy notes

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My best friend died recently. I was sad to go to her funeral, of course.But I was even sadder when I heard the eulogy. I didn’t recognise the words being used to describe her.They weren’t unkind, but they felt like the sort of compliments you give to someone who did a good job at work, […]

Real questions, real notes

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From a thought to a note People often come to Very Important Notes with thoughts that are unfinished, emotional, or hard to say out loud. They are not looking for perfect wording. They just want help turning what is in their head into something clear, kind and meaningful. Here are a few real-life examples of […]