Writing Isn’t Going Away. It’s Becoming More Important Than Ever.

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A recent post by Steven Bartlett on LinkedIn could almost have been written for Very Important Notes. His message was simple but powerful. Even in a world full of AI, writing for yourself still matters. Perhaps more than ever. The more technology gives us instant answers, the more valuable it becomes to slow down and […]

Why I’m writing my own eulogy notes

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My best friend died recently. I was sad to go to her funeral, of course.But I was even sadder when I heard the eulogy. I didn’t recognise the words being used to describe her.They weren’t unkind, but they felt like the sort of compliments you give to someone who did a good job at work, […]

Real questions, real notes

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From a thought to a note People often come to Very Important Notes with thoughts that are unfinished, emotional, or hard to say out loud. They are not looking for perfect wording. They just want help turning what is in their head into something clear, kind and meaningful. Here are a few real-life examples of […]

How to Write Your Own Will at Home (UK Guide)

A simple guide to doing it properly A Will does not have to be complicated or expensive. Many people assume you must use a solicitor, but in the UK you can write your own Will as long as it follows the legal rules. A clear, valid Will is one of the most helpful documents you […]

Create and Fill In a Simple UK Will at Home

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A straightforward guide, plus a basic draft you can use. Many people put off writing a Will because it feels complicated, but the truth is, a simple Will can be written at home with no cost. The important part is clarity, not fancy wording. If your affairs are straightforward, you can genuinely do this yourself. […]

When a memory surfaces and you find yourself wondering whether to get in touch

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There are times in life when we see someone almost every day. A friend from school. A colleague who made the office bearable, even brilliant. A neighbour who felt more like a sibling than someone who happened to live two doors down. For a while you knew each other’s rhythms and routines, right down to […]

When Something Small Becomes Something Big, and How We Help You Put It Right

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It is astonishing how quickly something tiny can grow legs. A throwaway remark, a poorly timed message, a sigh taken the wrong way, or a moment of distraction that accidentally comes across as disinterest. What begins as something small, almost forgettable, can slowly grow into hurt feelings, distance or a knot of tension that neither […]

Ideas for Pinterest Boards Worth Sharing

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Little collections that become tiny treasures, and how they inspire the notes we one day write There is something comforting about a Pinterest board. It is a quiet drawer you fill at your own pace. No pressure, no performance, just small things that matter to you. Most of us already have the well known ones. […]